Day 13 : The Other Side of Sowmya

I was just going thru this very website, and I realized that all of us have written so much good about Sowmya. In an attempt to make her feel nice, we forgot ourselves. Yes guys..!!! Is this what we generally did when we were with Sowmya..?? When we are together, its her job to make everyone around feel nice and we are only there to harass her, criticize her and pull her leg (all for fun of course). Then how, when and why did we get into her shoes and take up the task of making her feel nice..??

Anyways, now that we've done it, I think she’s had enough. Let’s get back to what we are best at... After moving forward and reaching halfway through this blog, today we’ll try and unwind ourselves. Let’s go back and complement the good things said for her with some reality checks. Yes Sowmya, you’ve guessed it right. Today this blog has negatives about you, more than your positives.

Any ordinary person after reading the first few paragraphs would have been afraid that his weaknesses were about to be disclosed. But yet again, we are not talking about any ordinary person here. I know what this stupid girl’s reaction must be. She ll say the way I ve accepted good things, I ll accept the bad also and try to improve. Wrong….!!!! You should confidently stand up and say that there's nothing that you can write about if you tend to write bad about me. But then the humble and down-to-earth person that she is, she takes compliments lightly and criticism seriously.

Having written about the delicate darling, a perfect friend, a thorough professional and the beautiful angel, here is the time to do something different. Don’t worry dear I m not gonna be very harsh on you. These are just a few things which I think can make me more than the perfect self that you are. SO lets get started.

One… There have been times when I ve seen you real confused, confused on what decision to take, confused on what to do, The best example that comes to my mind is the incident when we have to go to eat and when all of us are busy doing our own work. That is the time, you take such a lot of time to decide that we end up waiting and waiting. Mind you, I m not blaming you here for it. And my intentions will be more clear once you read the next few lines. Actually the thing is this female is so busy trying to get everyone together that sometimes she forgets what’s going by. She wants all of us to do things together, which my dear, is not possible sometimes. But this girl is so patient that she does not want to accept this.

Ok lets see some other instance where I can pull out the bad in her. Suppose she has to do some work and we as usual are not letting her do it just like that without a rhyme or reason; like sometimes we are just in mood to waste time and she has loads of work. If its anybody else, I m sure they would walk off and do their work. But she wont. She ll sit with you even if you are just wasting time avoiding her very important work as well. Can anyone be that stupid..?

I have been trying hard here but have not been able to really point out anything bad in this female. Actually even if I start with something bad (after thinking for a really long time), eventually it turns into something good. Now you see the magic. That’s what you do. Anything, no matter, good or bad, which is directed towards you always turns to something beautiful. The same way this article has turned out to be. So now I hope you ll stop being thankful to me for everything. I hope you realize that its not me but you who has made this entire idea a beautiful one.