Friday, April 25, 2008

Day 5 : The Delicate Darling

Sowmya- THE DELICATE DARLING



M sure I don’t need to tel my name after giving her this adjective…obviously she knows me guyzz…

M nt her childhood friend or a friend who has spent many years of his life with her…bt defntly few dayz (mostly on phone dats a diff matter)....the most cherishable moment s whn she greets me wd a Gud morng or Hiiii….or whn she hangs up d phone sayin byee n take caren gud nt…dats d sweetest way f greetin I hv ever heard n got….jst Cr@Zyyy abt dat

Wud love to call n hang up d phone several times a day…

Chalo lets not get diverted frm the title of the blog guyzz…

THE DELICATE DARLING…that's wat I call her…

DELICATE coz she s jst so vulnerable to d DANGERS f d REAL WORLD…she s far away frm d reality…I jst don feel dat m stayin in Mumbai whn m talking to her where every1 s makin d odr person a step f d ladder to climb up or a victim of Use n Throw Disease which s wide spread in Amchi Mumbai n actually in d whole world nw…

She dsnt thnk much abt big issues but its d small things whch hurt her…she wl try to hide by her cute n chirpy smile bt her EYES wont help her…bt still she wl try to make odr ppl smile n loose tension frgtng her own probs…

Smtims I ask few questions to myself…Is she meant fr this cruel world?? Her innocent eyes wl b like this frevr??

I jst feel like keeping her in a non-breakable shell like the MOST PRECIOUS PEARL…safely n far away frm d cruelty f this world…on which their wud b no effect f external world.

DARLING…I don thnk I need to write much abt this word…bt I guess I better should coz odrwise she s gonna kill me like a DARLING…are baba by her sweet comments which she s able to use on me only in this whole world..i donno y m I not able to KHINCHOFY her…n d ansr lies in d word itself…DARLING…

She s so sweet, preety, cute, innocent, SUNDAR(he he I hope u rmmbr)..jst like a teddy or a cute bugs bunny…just feel like gvng her a hug evrytime she does a pretty thing… (now dats a diff matter dat she does such things every minute, bechari thak jaayegi itne hugs diye to DELICATE hai na!!)

Waise to its nt posbl bt even if I try to KHINCHOFY her she says so innocently " AAP MERE SAATH AISA KAROGE SHAAA…." N obvsly coz m a sweetheart use khud sorry bol deta hun even if I knw she has done a mistake…dats d effect she carries wd herself…although its deadly…bt wl do anythn to die many times coz f her this effect only…

N the most imp thing abt her…she s d same fr every1 she talks…A REAL DELICATE DARLIN…

JUST BE LIKE THIS FOREVER…

2 comments:

Sowmya said...

This was one of the bigger surprises that I received on this blog (not that the blog in itself was a small a surprise). Anupam Ghiya penning down a blog for me!!! It took me ages to believe it. Hadn’t it been for a few peculiar things he wrote down I wouldn’t have even guessed it was him.
True I somehow didnt even expect him to write me a blog, but when he did bahut achcha laga. Thank you anupam it’s a very very sweet post...
It’s only fair that you guys know a little about what I think of the person who wrote so much about me. A small tribute to the person who has come to mean a lot to me in a very short span of time:
I have known Anupam for quite a while now, mostly via telephone conversations and SMSes. But yet actually KNOWING him is not an easy task. A person who will always listen to what u have to say but will rarely share anything about himself. All ears (loves to listen to people he says) when u need a friend to talk to and usually gives very sensible advice.
The first impression that you will get about him is that he is very down to earth and that he is. Down to earth and modest (but ironically khud ki tarif kiye nahi thakte hai, chahe woh mazak mein hi kyun na ho). His simplicity will bowl you down. Honestly, your simplicity in thought and action sometimes really amaze me Anupam, but then it is also one of the reasons I respect you so much.
A true friend in every sense! And this is something I am sure all his friends will agree with. It’s hard to find a friend like him, and it’s only us lucky ones who will actually understand that. When it comes to his friends he is so selfless, caring and everything else that you expect your ‘perfect’ friend to be. You’re his friend that is sufficient reason for him to go to any extent for you. He somehow always knows when his friends need an excuse to smile and almost always manages to bring a smile to their face.
I still remember my initial interactions with him. He was the senior elixir committee member I was reporting too. But yet he was so sweet, approachable, humble, down to earth (I already spoke about this aspect) and most surprisingly soft spoken (it was much later that I found out how mischievous he is). Since day 1, I didn’t feel like I was dealing with any senior. He was a new acquaintance and a new friend. And I think I can speak for moti here and say it was the same for her as well. It didn’t take either of us long to establish a comfortable rapport with this chap (not to forget it took us even lesser time to start pulling his leg). To date he is one person we can and we do look up to whenever we need a friend.
There is also this different dimension to our friendship. The fun element! We are not just friends who trust each, are there for each other and depend on each other but we are also friends who are experts at pulling each other’s legs (ok I confess moti and I pull his leg most often, but yet he isn’t that calm and forgiving, he does get back at us once in a while and that too with interest). Anupam is always around when we need a smile, a cheer and a laugh. We maybe in the worst of our moods but we are automatically smiling when we are talking with him. Some sort of magic potion (elixir…hehehehe) he uses, I guess.
All in all one unique character and I wonderful friend. I consider myself lucky to have you as a friend. Thank you Anupam for always being there and ya of course for this post as well..

Shazia said...

I have nothing left to say with Tambu sayin so much..
Just like to mention that i agree with each n every word that Tambu said...
I kno people dont realize ur worth Anupam... But u surely r a gem of a person.. N v value u a lot, much more than u can ever imagine..
N v respect u for the kind of person that u r..
Thanks for bein there..